Tadi pagi lebih kurang pukul 11 am aku dan adik No.2 pergi Jusco Seremban 2.
Dia ponteng sekolah. Ok, bersebab. Hari ni ada hari anugerah kecemerlangan. Dasar.Ambik kesempatan sunguh. Selain kami berdua berniat mahu menempah tiket transformers 3 idaman hati my lil bro, si adik No.2 juga mengheret ku ke Jusco untuk membeli buku past years question. Ada lagi empat subjekyang dia tak ada lagi.
Book store is one of my favourite palces. Duduk sehari suntuk pun aku sanggup. Dan tadi setelah draw duit yang nampaknya semakin susut di dalam akaun, maka aku telah membeli assorted word puzzle book(ada crosswords, wordsearch, code words). kononnya nak mengisi masa lapang lah. Dan tadi I almost bought parenting books. How to increase your babies IQ. Haha...Something like that la. Tapi, sebab harga dia agak mahsyuk juga, maka tak jadi beli.
Serious macam interesting dow buku tu. Tapi macam too early for me to read that kind of book. Mampus akan digelakkan oleh ayah ku nanti. Ada banyak buku parenting aku belek-belek. Rasa macam best lak jadi parents kan. Lebih-lebih bila kena jaga and didik toodlers. What caught my attention was that the book says kids learn best at the first 6 years of their age. They almost can learn anything in that time interval.That's the crucial time of their life time. Masa itulah tahap IQ diaorang perlu di develope oleh parents. Lepas 6 years and above, It's too late.
Ironically, kita selalu underestimate kids kan. Tapi, tanpa disedari waktu itu lah masa yang sangat precious untuk diorang. Kita selalu sangka, 'ala, they are just a kid. what would they know'. Tapi tidak sama sekali. Ingat tak kecik-kecik dulu kita selalu akan tanya benda-benda pelik dekat parents. Aku ingat lagi aku selalu tanya itu ini dekat ayah. Tapi what from I remember, ayah will answer almost everything. Curiosity kanak-kanak memang sangat tinggi.
Kids are succeptible to almost anything and they absorb information like sponges absorb the water. And they are honest plus very observant. I admit that I'm not the most penyabar kind of person. Haha. Maybe the other half should be the one to has 'penyabar' kind of attitude. Hopefully.
Being a sister to 3 other siblings, I kinda have the sense of motherly. Sikitlah. Jadi kakak memang selalu kena mengalah . Protective. Sebab, age gap dengan parents maybe kadang-kadang merumitkan satu-satu situasi. Some issues, they might not get it. So, it's the eldest sis/bro to involve in the situation and give the best solution to other younger siblings. I don't know why, but I have the urge to always protect them. Kalau boleh, I don't want they to get through what I've been/known especially all bad stuff la. Haha.
Being the eldest yang tak bestnya, I've got to know everything on my own. No exposure. All alone experimenting this and that. Buat keputusan pun ikut pendapat sendiri ataupun parents. Tak ada orang terdekat dari segi umur yang akan bagi nasihat kalau ada problems. Sedih~ Nasib lah. Kalau dapat exposure yang baik, maka you'll turn out to be a good person. Vice versa. I wish I had a sister or brother. Bestnyerrr~
My self trait yang tak suka bergantung dekat orang kind of explains why I'm being independent. Semua nak buat sendiri, kalau boleh tak suka invlovement daripada banyak pihak. Kalau ada problem, better off simpan dalam hati sahaja. Haha. Sounds pathetic kan.Dan bila buat keputusan, kena fikir pasal 'semua orang sekeliling'. Selfish? Pergi terjun lombong lah!
